If your signed in click on http://community.bt.com/
Then about two thirds of the page across under welcome you'll see your forum name sign out, my settings etc...
Well next to your name is a small envelope click on that will get you to your Private Messages.
Yes you can watch movies from sites that are not 4od & iplayer I used them as an example thats all, I watch things from Sky movies sport et all
No problem Toekneem always been billy no mates