Xbox series S Destiny 2 blocked connection

[dom979]

So destiny 2 works fine on my old xbox one, my new xbox arrived yesterday and I can no longer connect to the games servers. I asked on the developers forum what the error code I was getting means, and they replied that it's an issue with parent controls blocking my xbox from connecting to the servers. I am still able to connect with my old xbox, is there anyway to fix this on my new xbox as I live in shared accommodation and i'm unable to turn off the parental controls. 

[stomper1]

parental-control settings work across both Xbox One and Windows 10 devices, and can be enabled either on the Xbox or in your browser through your Microsoft account. The first step is to link your Microsoft Account to your kid's account (the one they use to log into Xbox or their Windows PC.

might help ya