as this seems to be dragging on and you are getting nowhere I have asked a mod to help they will post here
Hi @Rosmy,
Thanks for reaching out to us.
I've been reading over your thread and think it would be best if you or your Wife spoke with my team.
I have sent you a private message that you can reply back to my team through. It may take us 3-5 working days before we can get back to you but we will do everything that we can to help you as soon as we can.
Thank you
DanielS
Thank you for your advice. I have just sent Daniel an email. Your help is much appreciated!
The ONT serial number should be on a sticker on it, so you can make a note of it & call BT yourself to check it matches.
Ideally you want the FTTP on 0800 587 4787.
haha! - read on here about the nightmare even trying to get a form from them, never mind the service - but worth a try I suppose.